Gilbert McCurdy, LCSW, SEP
Licensed Clinical Social Worker specializing in trauma therapy...

Anxiety & Stress Therapy - Gilbert McCurdy, LCSW

Evidence-based anxiety and stress therapy in NYC. Specializing in LGBTQ+ mental health, using proven modalities like EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, and Internal Family Systems to help you find peace and resilience.
MSW
Master of Social Work
Columbia University
LCSW
Licensed Clinical Social Worker
SEP
Somatic Experiencing Practitioner
Somatic Experiencing Trauma Institute
Somatic Experiencing Trauma Institute
Eastern Group Psychotherapy Society (EGPS)
The Center for Group Studies (CGS)
American Group Psychotherapy Association (AGPA)
International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP)
International Center for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT)
The New York Center for EFT
International Society for Schema Therapy (ISST)
The New York State Society for Clinical Social Work (NYSSCSW)
Anxiety Disorders
Stress Management
Somatic Experiencing for Anxiety
Internal Family Systems for Stress
EMDR for Trauma-Related Anxiety
Generalized Anxiety Disorder
Social Anxiety
Panic Attacks
Work-Related Stress
Performance Anxiety
Anxiety Therapy
Individual therapy for anxiety disorders using evidence-based approaches including Somatic Experiencing and Internal Family Systems to address the root causes of anxiety.
212-414-1808
gilbert@gilbertmccurdy.com
18 East 16th Street, Suite 503 New York NY 10003

Therapy for Anxiety & Stress in NYC

Is each day a struggle because of overwhelming stress or anxiety?

These are natural responses designed to protect us—but in a fast-paced city like New York, they can become overactive, triggering fight-flight-or-freeze responses to everyday situations that aren't actually threatening.

When your nervous system is stuck in overdrive, it can feel like a relentless cycle:

  • Avoiding situations that used to feel manageable

  • Constantly anticipating the worst-case scenario

  • Exhausted from the mental and physical toll of being perpetually "on"

Racing thoughts, tension, and constant worry don't have to be your normal.

When to Seek Professional Help

Chronic stress develops when we're juggling multiple demands—career, relationships, family, finances—without adequate recovery time. What starts as manageable pressure can snowball into persistent overwhelm that affects your sleep, relationships, and overall well-being.

Therapy can help reduce anxiety and stress symptoms and give you tools to cope when they arise. As a general rule, if you've been struggling for 2 weeks or longer, it may be time to reach out.

Consider therapy if you're experiencing:

  • Anxiety or stress interfering with work, relationships, or daily life

  • Physical symptoms like tension, sleep problems, or panic attacks

  • Avoiding important situations due to worry or fear

  • Using alcohol, substances, or other behaviors to cope

  • Feeling overwhelmed despite trying to manage it on your own

  • Persistent worry that feels out of proportion to the situation

For gay men and LGBTQ+ clients, anxiety often carries additional layers: the stress of navigating spaces where you don't feel fully safe, workplace pressure around being out, family dynamics, or the chronic weight of minority stress.

My Therapeutic Approach to Anxiety & Stress

Anxiety isn't just "in your head"—it lives in your entire nervous system.

For over 25 years, I've helped people calm their nervous system and help build lasting resilience. Many of my clients are gay men and high-functioning individuals who appear successful on the outside while quietly struggling with anxiety, perfectionism, imposter syndrome, and the persistent fear of not being enough.

In our work together, we'll go beyond managing symptoms. We’ll work to understand why your mind and body react the way they do, so you can start to feel genuinely calmer, safer, and more like yourself.

I use body-based approaches alongside traditional therapy:

  • IFS helps you identify the internal patterns and protective parts that fuel anxiety — so you can respond to stress with greater self-compassion rather than self-criticism

    Learn more: Internal Family Systems (IFS)

  • EMDR helps your mind process traumatic memories and past experiences that continue to trigger anxiety and stress, so they lose their emotional charge and no longer drive your nervous system responses.

    Learn more: EMDR

  • SE helps your nervous system learn to regulate and find calm naturally, reducing the physical symptoms of anxiety and stress.

    Learn more: Somatic Experiencing (SE)