Anxiety & Stress Therapy - Gilbert McCurdy, LCSW
Therapy for Anxiety & Stress in NYC
Is each day a struggle because of overwhelming stress or anxiety?
These are natural responses designed to protect us—but in a fast-paced city like New York, they can become overactive, triggering fight-flight-or-freeze responses to everyday situations that aren't actually threatening.
When your nervous system is stuck in overdrive, it can feel like a relentless cycle:
Avoiding situations that used to feel manageable
Constantly anticipating the worst-case scenario
Exhausted from the mental and physical toll of being perpetually "on"
Racing thoughts, tension, and constant worry don't have to be your normal.
When to Seek Professional Help
Chronic stress develops when we're juggling multiple demands—career, relationships, family, finances—without adequate recovery time. What starts as manageable pressure can snowball into persistent overwhelm that affects your sleep, relationships, and overall well-being.
Therapy can help reduce anxiety and stress symptoms and give you tools to cope when they arise. As a general rule, if you've been struggling for 2 weeks or longer, it may be time to reach out.
Consider therapy if you're experiencing:
Anxiety or stress interfering with work, relationships, or daily life
Physical symptoms like tension, sleep problems, or panic attacks
Avoiding important situations due to worry or fear
Using alcohol, substances, or other behaviors to cope
Feeling overwhelmed despite trying to manage it on your own
Persistent worry that feels out of proportion to the situation
For gay men and LGBTQ+ clients, anxiety often carries additional layers: the stress of navigating spaces where you don't feel fully safe, workplace pressure around being out, family dynamics, or the chronic weight of minority stress.
My Therapeutic Approach to Anxiety & Stress
Anxiety isn't just "in your head"—it lives in your entire nervous system.
For over 25 years, I've helped people calm their nervous system and help build lasting resilience. Many of my clients are gay men and high-functioning individuals who appear successful on the outside while quietly struggling with anxiety, perfectionism, imposter syndrome, and the persistent fear of not being enough.
In our work together, we'll go beyond managing symptoms. We’ll work to understand why your mind and body react the way they do, so you can start to feel genuinely calmer, safer, and more like yourself.
I use body-based approaches alongside traditional therapy:
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IFS helps you identify the internal patterns and protective parts that fuel anxiety — so you can respond to stress with greater self-compassion rather than self-criticism
Learn more: Internal Family Systems (IFS)
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EMDR helps your mind process traumatic memories and past experiences that continue to trigger anxiety and stress, so they lose their emotional charge and no longer drive your nervous system responses.
Learn more: EMDR
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SE helps your nervous system learn to regulate and find calm naturally, reducing the physical symptoms of anxiety and stress.
Learn more: Somatic Experiencing (SE)